TRICKY SITUATIONS...?

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As the life progress, we meet new people and these new people give us new insights about dealing with situations, circumstances and relations. New people generally accounts for new friends that we make during our school life and college days, at the start of new relation everything seems like happening and joyful but, as time passes we get to know the true nature of the partner with whom we are in a relation be it a friend or life partner. Problem arises when you let other to ruin you from within, and from there the disintegration of mind and soul takes place, and you don’t even realize it. Say there’s a friend of yours with whom you’ve started a business, the idea of business was given by your friend and you both work hard to make your business thrive. You both know your expertize section, and you are happy with your work. But your friend knowingly or unknowingly commands you “do that”, “you’ve not done this”, “I’ll (friend) attend meeting with 3rd person, you don’t come”, and these things are really to be condemned at that point only. But we don’t know how to retaliate at these circumstances because of course the guy with whom you’ve started a business is kind of your best friend.

In this situation of trouble, we must understand our priorities because once you prioritize you will be able to take the next step in a planned way and also you’ll never regret as you’ve taken ample time to reach a solution. Whenever you give a particular problem an ample of time then you can analyze the solution more efficiently. Secondly, if you decide to make your friend a priority then, you must totally trust him and surrender yourself to him but always keep in mind any relation which pierces your soul or degrades your self-respect is not worth continuing. If you decide to talk to your friend about the matter then, further take some time to tell him at the right time and always make it a point never bluntly say to anyone that, “he/she is wrong” because once you will do so, you’ll lose your friend or client whosoever it is.
So, try to avoid situations like these which make you choose in between life and self-respect. 

Wish you all peace of mind and happiness.

Comments

  1. Utkarsh ShuklaMarch 7, 2019 at 10:38 AM

    So relatable behna. Have felt the toxicity of a partnership like that. Thanks for this.

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  2. UnknownMarch 7, 2019 at 5:22 PM

    Reality. Self respect should be choosen.

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  3. UnknownMarch 7, 2019 at 5:46 PM

    It is relatable.. we should always make ourselves our priority.

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  4. Abhishek SinghMarch 8, 2019 at 5:22 AM

    yes rightly said...we aren't any entity for pleasing every one...it's our life, we have to make such tough decisions at times...the key is only to give fair amount of time and grasp the right time as you highlighted.

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  5. UnknownMarch 9, 2019 at 6:08 AM

    Amazing work Mansi. Relatable content and beautifully written .looking forward for more such amazing contents 😊

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  6. Manshi NigamMarch 9, 2019 at 9:54 AM

    Thank you, it means a lot :)

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